tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506461609394931262024-03-12T21:26:52.151-07:00~a little bit of everything~yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.comBlogger221125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-57903063984682561452012-03-29T02:02:00.002-07:002012-03-29T02:16:04.045-07:00muka barusemekom.<div><br /></div><div>dah lamak xberblog....ku rasa nak berblog....jadi ku taip ctok lah.... byk benda happened 2 3 menjak tok..ritok ku rasa lonely gilak2...bagei xda family, kawan or gerek jak..hahahahahah bila ku rasa lonely and rasa nak bercerita jd ku singgah ctok lah...pat juak ngereco dalam tok nak....</div><div><br /></div><div>k...pa nak di cerita oo? tauk ktk urang ku dolok nak bz nak mampus ya time ya kukeja ngan bank...wana kunin nak rimo ya.... ha...tp xlamak rejeki ku kat sia...sedih juak la..coz kerja prospek bagus as credit officer, memang ada masa depan lah makin2 dengan company bagus nak..ku kat sia review company performance, ptt x dak nya di brik loan. P kat sia banyak langsuir hahaha yang memusnahkan hidup aku,.. ada bos yang racist....mok ca ya nun alip jak..alasan nya... customer banyak ca ya nun alip..so nya mdh nya xplukan aku...damn gila u si rambut puteh! pas ya ada juak officer yang kaki kipas, nak tuka dept ngan aku....p nya xpat kipas bos aku si uban puteh ya tek...coz nya sama melayu ngan aku. xtauk ku pa jd ngan nasib nya nek tok. </div><div><br /></div><div>aku pun dah bait dah dari kesedihan bila nikmat rezeki ya di tarit balit. mesti ada hikmah bah. Kinek tok aku rasa aku lebih bahagia. muahhahahahahaha</div><div><br /></div><div>pas ya aku dapat offer dari sigek company tok....nya banking juak...p international... and i know it tougher than what i can imagine. p ku mok juak try. aku xmok nyesal sebab xtry..memang niat nak keja ngan gov, tp gov xnunggah aku gik....hmmm :(...pas ya ada juak company credit carik aku...p ada molah sales..malas ku eh..da sigek ya..nya carik loan processor juak...p keja sampei ari ahad...makin xda life..malas juak aku... da sigek ya kat miri...hr...bait org nya...p contract setaun...da sigek ku mok nak kat cyberjaya ya...knak dak nya xcall nunggah balit oh? kali ku slh jwb double entry kali hahahaha</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>company ku nak baru tok kat tpm, bukit jalil. xtauk la pa jadi...ku just mok explore jak..new life..i mean new phase....</div><div><br /></div><div>pa gik mok cita?</div><div><br /></div><div>gerek kah? maseh mek 2...doa jak jodoh mek 2 dipercepatkan dan segalanya di permudahkan. amin :)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>bah..ya jak lah ku nak update...nak g scan lok...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>bubye..</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>regrads.</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-19506095666618661472011-12-06T09:36:00.000-08:002011-12-06T09:38:31.304-08:007-12-11it is been awhile i dint write anything here...<div><br /></div><div>and its about time....</div><div><br /></div><div>but..</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>have you have that thought? the thought you want to tell everything...</div><div>but end up writing..non!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>hmm..that exactly happening to me rite now!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Hahaha!</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-88714525679512003692011-04-02T21:03:00.000-07:002011-04-02T21:51:43.916-07:00apa tok? pengajaran dari mu tuk diriku?waahhh...tajuk nak gempaqqq ahahahaha ..<div><br /></div><div>its been awhile i didn't write anything here.. <div><br /></div><div>ok, aku masuk fasa baru dalam hidup aku. semua nya masih baru. environment, duties, kawan kawan, semua nya masih baru. dan aku masih dalam adjustment mode. tapi bukan itu yang aku nak luahkan di sini. aku rasa aku tak patut luahkan disini, tapi aku tak tahu nak cerita kepada siapa, jadi aku pilih cerita kepada semua berharap you akan tahu dis one is for you.</div><div><br /></div><div>bangun bangun tido aku trus baca semua text selama seminggu ni..aku jadi tension. stress. and depressed. aku tak salahkan kau. aku tahu, aku ada salah nya di situ. dan aku tak kata kau salah sebab kau ada betulnya. dan tak semua kau betul, aku rasa kau ada salahnya.</div><div><br /></div><div>pada mulanya aku rasa aku betul. sumpah. aku betul. aku rasa diri aku betul. then hari ini, setelah aku muhasabah diri. setelah penat mataku mengeluarkan air mata. setelah penat aku memerah otak fikirkan kenapa. aku sedar. rupanya aku banyak salah dari betul.</div><div><br /></div><div>kau betul. semua yang kau katakan aku berlagak. sombong. bajet pandai. aku rasa kau betul. sebab kau org yang paling hampir dengn aku. kau yang 24 jam bersama aku. sumpah aku tak percaya bila kau tuduh aku macam itu. sebab kawan kawan aku semua kata aku macam biasa. cuma makin menyusahkan mereka ada lah, btol x missgolong? hehe.</div><div><br /></div><div>selepas aku baca balik semua text selama seminggu tu..baru aku prasan, mana salah dan silap ku. paling aku kecewa ialah aku tak ambik serius pun dalam hal yang kau tengah menegur sebab aku, aku binggung dengan dunia baru ku yang memerlukan banyak benda tuk belajar. aku stress. tapi kau lah tempat aku mengadu. tempat aku bermanja. tempat aku release stress. dan aku tau kau tak suka dilayan sebegitu. </div><div><br /></div><div>it is my fault. aku mintak maaf dari hujung rambut sampai hujung kaki. aku ambik perkara ini mudah. samapai lah kau mintak space. baru aku tersedar, bahawa perkara sudah teruk lagi bernanah. aku hanya mampu mohon keampunan.. dari kau.. dan aku mengucapkan terima kasih, kerana menyedarkan aku terlebih awal dari biasa.. thank you.</div><div><br /></div><div>aku manusia biasa. aku buat silap. dulu masa persekolahan, kita di belajar pengajaran tuk menduduki ujian. tapi dalam kehidupan, kita diberi ujian untuk belajar pengajaran. ini pengajaranku. aku harap, aku tidak dihukum dengan kesalahan yang lain. </div><div><br /></div><div>saya minta maaf wak..</div></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-19383622553457418072011-01-03T02:22:00.000-08:002011-01-03T02:24:20.169-08:001-1-11<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TSGjjDuXg8I/AAAAAAAAAx4/P6B4CtaLrQE/s1600/1111.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 275px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TSGjjDuXg8I/AAAAAAAAAx4/P6B4CtaLrQE/s320/1111.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557903237842437058" /></a><br /><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >Welcome 2011 :)</span></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-44438500651148812192010-09-19T04:47:00.000-07:002010-09-19T04:49:24.679-07:00changesi am in boring mode.<div><br /></div><div>i mean, rite now, i'm super duper boring.</div><div><br /></div><div>i need some changes. new things. new thrill.</div><div><br /></div><div>i need to feel the rush.</div><div><br /></div><div>changes is good people.</div><div><br /></div><div>i need to make a drastic step.</div><div><br /></div><div>any suggestion?</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-89113629294691931722010-08-21T06:00:00.000-07:002010-08-21T06:11:39.795-07:00baru sebulanbaru sepuluh hari berpuasa. alhamdulillah.<div><br /></div><div>baru sebulan dengan loan department. kehangatan kebosanan kehidupan sudah mula terasa.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>selamat berpuasa! :D</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-75743600424784056612010-08-16T06:24:00.000-07:002010-08-16T06:27:49.549-07:00What Month You Were Born?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(165, 199, 51); "><h2 style="font-family: arial; text-transform: uppercase; font-size: 13pt; line-height: 15px; text-align: left; letter-spacing: 1pt; margin-top: -3px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;"><br /></span></h2><div style="clear: both; "></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">JANUARY=PIMP<br />Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them MFE.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFFFF;">FEBRUARY=THUG<br />Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. sexiest out of everyone. A real speed demon. Has more than one best friend. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. </span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">MARCH=GORGEOUS<br />Drop dead gorgeous!!! Attractive personality. Very! sexy. Affectionate & Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Chatterbox! Loves to talk a lot! Loves to get their way! . Unbelievable kisser! Easily angered. Very stubborn in the most way possible! Loves to get noticed! Willing to take risks for others. Makes good choices. Has a great fashion sense! Maybe a little too popular with others * wink wink *. Outgoing and crazy at times! Intelligent. Can sometimes be a heartbreaker! Can love as much as<br />possible! Hates insults. Loves compliments! A very big flirt! Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. The best in bed out of NE of these months!! Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others, likes to keep they’re crushes kind a secret, pretty much flawless.</span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFFFF;">APRIL=SEXY<br />Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and travelling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.<br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">MAY=LOVER<br />Hella sexy, loves sex n making luv, tends to be SOOOOO hot!! Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves peoples problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.<br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFFFF;">JUNE = LUST<br />Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. Boy/girls LOVE you. You are very hot. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. snazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.<br /></span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">JULY=GANGSTA<br />You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have a very attractive partner, a wicked hottie. Like somebody with a JUNE birthday. It is also more likely than that you have a massive record collection. When it comes to films, you know how to pick them and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you've got the looks for it!!!<br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFFFF;">AUGUST=ATTITUDE<br />outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. self control. kind hearted. Self confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an "every thing's peachy" attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of "that someone". longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or restricted. lives by "no pain no gain" caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. independent. strong willed. a fighter.</span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">SEPTEMBER=FINEASS PIMP<br />Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Great in bed. Inner and physical beauty. Doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. A meaningful love life partner. Makes right choices. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Does not harm others. It is all about love and fairness. Easily hurt and hard to recover. Daydreamer and does fulfill. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Knows what to do, to have fun. Unpredictable. Someone to have close to you. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.</span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#00CCCC;">OCTOBER=HOTTIE<br />Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.</span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFFFF;">NOVEMBER=SWEETIE<br />Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.<br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">DECEMBER=BEAUTY<br />This straight-up means you’re the most good-looking Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. having many children. Hardworking. High spirited</span></span></span></span>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-4400052782492948292010-08-09T06:01:00.000-07:002010-08-09T06:05:15.578-07:00life changingdulu, aku bawa slide pergi kelas. sometime bawak buku. sometime x bawa apa apa<div>sekarang, aku bawa pen pergi office.</div><div><br /></div><div>dulu, duit pt tuk aku seorang</div><div>sekarang, duit gaji, banyak benda yang perlu di bayar</div><div><br /></div><div>dulu, bapak aku bagi wang saku</div><div>sekarang, aku cari wang saku aku sendiri</div><div><br /></div><div>dulu, aku selalu makan maggie</div><div>sekarang, aku makan masakan emak aku.... ye adik ku jeles. hahaha.</div><div><br /></div><div>dulu, selalu spent time dengan kawan kawan</div><div>sekarang, masing masing ada kehidupan masing masing</div><div><br /></div><div>dulu, aku seorang pelajar</div><div>sekarang, aku seorang perkerja</div><div><br /></div><div>tapi</div><div><br /></div><div>tapi</div><div><br /></div><div>bila aku jadi graduan??</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-62958589412660264982010-07-24T22:04:00.000-07:002010-07-24T22:11:20.592-07:00life doing mistakes mean everything rather than life doing nothings.aku pernah berkata sebelum ini kalau kau pakai baju baru tapi kau simpan dengan baju baju lama yang dah berbau hapak, baju baru ka akan bau hapak juga.<div><br /></div><div>sama macam kehidupan kita. jika kawan kawan kau seorang yang positif, kau pun akan positif.</div><div><br /></div><div>im in pain. yeah. tp aku sedaya upaya untuk tersenyum. tiada siapa yang akan tolong diri kau melainkan kau sendiri.</div><div><br /></div><div>lidah manusia setajam pisau. boleh membunuh. hanya diri kau boleh survive dengan kat kata setajam pisau atau menangkis nya.</div><div><br /></div><div>apa yang sudah dilafazkan xkan kembali lagi. sepertimana kau melukakan hati orang lain sama la seperti kau pakukan paku didinding. Bila kau minta maaf, umpama kau cabut paku itu, dan, bekas nya tetap di situ. remain forever.</div><div><br /></div><div>peluang kedua.peluang ketiga. banyak yang tak berjaya lakukan dengan lebih baik, sebab, mereka tak tahu bagaimana. and so am i.</div><div><br /></div><div>banyak benda yang bermain di kotak minda aku sekarang. aku meminta pertolongan dari-Nya. Aku berserah segala galanya kepada-Nya. dan aku tak akan berhenti berusaha. tidak sama sekali!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>p/s: life doing mistakes mean everything rather than life doing nothings.</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-47997027321420463472010-07-11T07:09:00.000-07:002010-07-11T07:12:47.291-07:00i felt so numb.tomorrow is my flight. how do i feel? numb. serious. aint no lie.<div>it is my first time to have Assessment Session for my 2nd stage of interview.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>but....</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i have no idea at all how the interview will look like.</div><div><br /></div><div>Ya Allah, help me. murahkan rezeki hamba mu ini. Amin.</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-24942237225535660752010-07-05T01:41:00.000-07:002010-07-05T01:51:16.166-07:0011 october 2010<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>today is july. next is august. then september and after that is october. october? yipppieee!!</div><div><br /></div><div>my convocation month! i really cant wait for my convocation. seriously. :-)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TDGb8zxyKxI/AAAAAAAAAws/ZWG2S1RyLTM/s320/graduates.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 263px; height: 175px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490340889734818578" /><br /><div>This year, the convocation bit longer than before and am hoping that we will use the new DU. Please, make it happen God.<br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TDGb9WXgd2I/AAAAAAAAAw0/VwIgGuQERk4/s320/maklumatsidang.png" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 194px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490340899019847522" /><div style="text-align: center;">yup. 11 october. the last faculty for 14 Convocation.</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;">fellas, cant wait to see u guys.october!</span></div></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-552771248602484322010-07-03T11:26:00.000-07:002010-08-09T05:58:58.724-07:00it not easy, but worth it.<div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Im not good with word.</div><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"> Well, I’m not born like this, surely I can say, I turn fully private person on july 2009 and it go on until now. So many things had happened. I still remember back than I used to play futsal with my roommates during my matriculation year. Then I proceed to myuniversity life. Ive got my own lappy. aspire 2920. I guess it was a gift from my daddy coz I got myself in, well, I remember also he also made promised before that.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">Time fly by. My lappy was my best friend if I got bored in Seroja. Well,if who ever know how seroja look like, u will know how bored it is. Ive</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">got my friends also. The best. But lappy, he accompanied me during sick and happy.listening songs, tons of games, thousands of movies,uncountable assignments and so on. Jasa mu, takkan ku lupa. My broadband? Oh yes, I ask my dad to buy it for my fyp ehehehe. He help me a lot to google any information that I need.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">University life taught you how to live.is it true? Yes, I think. You know why, 50% u learnt how to score an A in a subject. How to get dean lis</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">ts. How to maintain or raise up ur cgpa. But the other 50% is how u get the goals. How u handle stress. How u handle datelines. How u handle some crazy chick with her little drama. How u handle people that stab behind ur back. How u handle cheaters, free rider and so on. Life is hard.never easy.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">How do I survive? Ive got my important people around me. Not forget my family, but my friends also being there for me when im having my hard time.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">The ladies, you guys always bring laughter to me.cheerish my day and night. Jokes, study, fooling around, cries, argue is like a habit to us. Dinner together every night is a must. There so many memories till I cant write it down coz im sure if I do, I will never finish. From seroja, we move to Alamanda. Well, one of us go to cempaka but we remain contact with each other and still catching up with each other. How come I can forget a person name <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Farah Adibah Esa</span> that always make me smile? How come I can forget a person name <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Nurjannah Arbi</span> that always be there whatever happened to u? how come I can forget a person name <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Zakirah Taufek</span> that her characters almost look alike me. And how come I can forget a person name <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Fatimah Atirah Mohamad </span>that always make a scene around us, and the spoilt one? Seriously, you guys really cherish my day.</p><div><br /></div><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_1CMmpHfI/AAAAAAAAAw8/k8OnM-PQEqE/s320/blog1.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503386687761882610" /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;">the ladies</span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">When I moved to Alamanda, ive lot spend time myself with the ladies, but when all of us getting busy for the final year, ive closed to someone which is <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Siti Amirah Arbi</span>. You are the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">genius lamb, Capri. </span>At first, u surprised me. Im sure, UPM had changed u a lot, become mature, wiser,and full of wisdom. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>All my happiness, and sadness I share with u. well, we almost create a scene too back then. Memories. Haha.</p><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_4R1qInCI/AAAAAAAAAxk/diM6ezBVTu8/s320/blog6.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503390255015304226" /><div style="text-align: center;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;">the genius lamb</span></i> apabila bergamba mesti muka merinsak. i wonder y huhu</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_1CttBHZI/AAAAAAAAAxE/QdQ8GkA-j00/s320/blog2.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503386696646991250" /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;"><i>the besties</i></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">At the time being that im grow up and still growing, Sharifah Nadzirah and Siti noorazura also be there for me. Ups and downs like a roller coaster but we still have time with each other. I also get know someone special in my life. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Zuraida Sapong</span>. She is a libra like me, and we share the same birthday. How cool is that? It easy to talk to her coz she got me. I can talk to her in our language like screaming and yelling in the car arguing about some men but we not fighting. We can jokes harshly coz we know that aint hurt anybody heart. We hate the same girls coz they annoys us. Hope we not fall to the same guy.*finger cross* I miss u B. am aint lie.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_1D_NpIwI/AAAAAAAAAxc/E5vsGgWTYgA/s320/blog5.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503386718527103746" /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;"><i>libras</i></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">Forgot to mention, I do have best memories too with some of my coursemate. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF33;">Nurul Amirah, Siti hajar,Siti Khadijah, Naziemah, NurIdayu, and Aimi Mahiriah.</span> In the class, they like my bestfriend. Study together, assignments together, even poret together. Ahaha.</p><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_1Cwy8w0I/AAAAAAAAAxM/3NSfR0FB8O4/s320/blog3.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503386697477178178" /><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_pQX1maszFaI/TF_1DTdkl0I/AAAAAAAAAxU/ZhxidS-NUmg/s320/blog4.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503386706782754626" /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;"><i>miss V, S and B ngee~~~</i></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">So, do u know what is my purpose of life? <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">To be happy</span>.yes.simple isn’t it. But im not gonna answer like that during my interview session if they ask me, surely they not ganna give me a damn job , and ask me to get marry. But its true, I a simple person that enjoy a simple life. Wake up in the morning, having breakfast, then off to work. Lunch and then hi-tea in the evening, and taking my dinner. If I married, I’ll spend my time with my hubby and kids at night.well I still single, not married yet so night is always for my self. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC0000;">But that doesn’t mean I don’t have dreams, goals and ambition ok!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify">But life is not about happy it self. When u happy, u will sad. That what yin yang concept. Balanced. That what Islam been thaught, kesederhanaan. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Kalau kita bersederhana, maka kita tidak akan kecewa. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Rite now, im not gonna said im searching myself, but I am creating my self. Cause my life lie in my hand. Everyone have their own path. There are friends of mine become teacher, trainee, doing part time and me? Well, like I said, each of us start to live in reality. Everything is not like before. Changing is good.It is not matter to me as long each of us can be happy and enjoy spending time with loves one.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><br /></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;">Ask most people what they want out of life, and the answer’s simple.. to be happy</span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;">Maybe it’s this expectation, though,the wanting to be happy..that just keeps us from ever getting there.</span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;">Maybe the more we try and will ourselves to states of bliss, the more confused we get.. to the point where we don’t recognize ourselves.</span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;">Instead, we just keep smiling.. trying like hell to be the happy people we wish we were. Until eventually it hits us, its been there all along.. not in our dreams or hope.. but in the known.. the comfortable..the familiar.. (Grey,season 6)</span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;"><br /></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC66CC;"><br /></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><o:p> </o:p></p></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-11560299522781706292010-07-03T08:42:00.000-07:002010-07-03T08:48:44.122-07:00Poligami banyak menganiaya anak-anak<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal;mso-outline-level:3"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:180%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 18px;"><b><br /></b></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">MINGGU ini dipaparkan pandangan daripada seorang wanita yang tinggal di luar negara. Dia meminati ruangan ini sejak berusia belasan tahun. Walaupun kini telah berumah tangga dan beranak-pinak serta tinggal jauh di luar negara, dia tetap mengikuti ruangan ini melalui Internet tetapi setiap kali membaca kisah yang memaparkan tentang kehidupan wanita yang dianiaya suami, beliau mula susah hati.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Saya mempunyai dua orang anak, kami suami isteri adalah orang profesional dan telah menetap di negara Barat ini sejak lebih 12 tahun lalu. Saya amat tertarik dengan kisah yang dipaparkan beberapa minggu lalu mengenai poligami, terutama dengan tulisan seorang gadis bernama Farra Emelia.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Pada pandangan saya kebanyakan orang Melayu Islam khususnya di Malaysia tidak memahami konsep poligami dalam Islam sebenarnya selain daripada apa yang diuar-<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">uarkan oleh ustaz-ustaz dalam ceramah agama mereka khususnya mengenai isu ini.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Berada di luar negara dan bekerja dikelilingi oleh kesemua orang beragama Kristian atau ateis, saya sering ditanya mengenai Islam, terutama mereka yang faham bahawa Islam hanyalah agama yang menindas kaum wanita, menegakkan keganasan (terrorist) kejam dan sebagainya, melalui media yang mereka baca dan TV yang mereka tonton dan dengar.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Memang saya bukanlah alim tetapi bila ditanya tentang agama Islam yang kita cintai dan tanggapan negatif mereka menyebabkan saya membaca banyak buku untuk dijadikan rujukan.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Mereka tidak mahu mendengar hujah kita tanpa sebarang benda yang boleh dijadikan rujukan. Jadi saya terpaksa membaca untuk mendapatkan rujukan dari cendekiawan Islam terkenal seluruh dunia, melalui majalah, tafsiran dan sebagainya.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Di sini tak cukup kalau kita kata, Islam membenarkan lelaki berpoligami tanpa diikuti hujah-hujah cerdik pandai Islam untuk meyakinkan mereka dan mempertahankan agama Islam yang saya anuti. Masalah ini menjadi mudah sedikit kerana saya juga penyelidik (mempunyai ijazah doktor falsafah) untuk mencari maklumat membuat rujukan mengenai satu-satu isu yang mereka tanya. Dan saya akan terangkan kepada mereka sehinggalah mereka puas hati.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Dalam zaman serba canggih, ilmu di hujung jari, Internet banyak membantu saya mencari ilmu pengetahuan yang berguna. Nak cuba, taipkan polygamy in Islam atau wife obedience in Islam di mesin pencari Google tentu anda akan dapat jawapannya.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Di sini juga terdapat banyak pandangan cendekiawan Islam dari merata dunia. Saya akui jarang dan tidak berminat menghadiri ceramah agama semasa di Malaysia. Bagi saya tafsiran ustaz atau penceramah agama kita amat berat sebelah. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Kebanyakan mereka tidak seiring dengan pandangan para cendekiawan dan cerdik pandai, ulama Islam di seluruh dunia kerana mereka bergantung kepada pemahaman mereka dan apa yang telah diterima oleh budaya kita. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Pada pendapat saya, masyarakat kita terlalu casual mengenai poligami. Kenapa perbincangan masyarakat kita selalu diarah kepada isu poligami, isu isteri dengan poligami tetapi tidak kepada cara-cara suami mengukuhkan rumah tangga yang ada?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Pelbagai masalah sosial dan rumah tangga yang kita alami sekarang adalah kerana lelaki dan para suami tidak memperlengkapkan diri dengan ilmu agama yang wajib – tidak ada rasa tanggungjawab untuk “mengekal dan mengukuhkan” keluarga, tidak bangga untuk memastikan kejayaan sendiri seiringan kejayaan keluarga. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Bila umur mencecah 40-an ataupun umur perkahwinan masuk tujuh tahun ke atas, konsentrasi suami lebih untuk diri sendiri, selalunya bagaimana untuk menyalurkan hawa nafsu yang tidak dapat dikekang bila melihat anak dara atau perempuan muda melintas di depan mata? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Adakah dengan membenar dan menggalakkan suami berkahwin lebih dari satu kerana tidak dapat mengekang hawa nafsu, menjadi penyelesaiannya? Kenapa tidak memikirkan menambah ilmu agama di dada, supaya Allah mengukuhkan iman, menjaga mata dan hawa nafsu, supaya tidak tergoda dengan cubaan dunia? Adakah kerana kaum lelaki tidak dapat menahan hawa nafsu, maka keluarga dan anak-anak berpecah belah? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Islam adalah agama yang menggalakkan monogami dan bukan menggalakkan poligami. Poligami dibenarkan tetapi tidak digalakkan. Sebab utama adalah kerana pada zaman Rasullulah s.a.w. terdapat ramai balu tentera Islam dan juga ramai anak yatim yang kehilangan suami tempat bergantung disebabkan perang, bukan kerana suami tidak dapat menahan hawa nafsu. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Walaupun poligami dibenarkan, tetapi dikenakan syarat yang ketat, sesiapa yang ingin berpoligami perlu halusi situasi diri dan keluarga sebelum melaksanakannya.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Sebagai contoh Rasulullah hanya ada seorang isteri iaitu Siti Khadijah hinggalah Siti Khadijah meninggal dunia. Siti Khadijah dan anak-anak dapat perhatian sepenuhnya daripada Rasullulah. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Di akhir 13 tahun hayat Rasullulah, baginda mengahwini balu rakan-rakannya yang meninggalkan banyak anak. Dan menurut surah an Nisaa’ (ayat 3), menyediakan atau memberi ayah atau father figure kepada anak yatim adalah satu-satu sebab yang khusus dalam al-Quran mengapa Islam benarkan poligami <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Contoh yang ditunjukkan Rasullulah memberitahu kita bahawa seorang lelaki dan suami mesti memberikan sepenuh perhatian dan kesetiaan terhadap perkahwinan mereka dan kepada isteri dan anak anak, supaya dapat membina keluarga bahagia. Jika lelaki guna alasan ikut sunah Nabi, kenapa contoh ini tidak diikuti?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Dalam Islam, jelas dinyatakan syarat poligami dibenarkan berdasarkan kepada surah al-Nisa’ ayat 3: Dan jika kamu tidak akan dapat berlaku adil terhadap (hak-hak) perempuan yang yatim (apabila kamu mengahwininya), maka kahwinilah wanita-wanita (lain) yang kamu senangi; dua, tiga atau empat. Kemudian jika kamu takut tidak akan dapat berlaku adil, maka (kahwinilah) seorang saja, atau hamba-hamba yang kamu miliki. Yang demikian itu adalah lebih dekat kepada tidak berbuat aniaya. Dan lagi, Firman Allah s.w.t.: Kamu sekali-kali tidak akan dapat berlaku adil terhadap isteri-isteri kamu, sekalipun kamu berusaha untuk berlaku adil. (an-Nisa: 129)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Berdasarkan firman ini jika lelaki merasakan tidak boleh berlaku adil, dan sememangnya Allah telah berfirman lelaki tidak akan berlaku adil, maka diharuskan berkahwin satu sahaja kerana ketidakadilan di dalam rumah tangga adalah berdosa di sisi Allah. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Jadi, jika suami tidak dapat memastikan mereka berlaku adil terhadap isteri dan bakal isteri adalah lebih baik mengekang hawa nafsu dan menjauhkan diri dari poligami. Suami sepatutnya memberikan penuh perhatian kepada satu keluarga dan satu isteri. Psikologi dan kebajikan anakanak adalah lebih utama. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Melalui pembacaan saya, ada beberapa perkara asas kalau mahu poligami. Pertama, poligami bukan penyebab kepahitan atau kesengsaraan kepada yang terbabit; jika lelaki ingin berpoligami itu ada anak, maka poligami itu hampir pasti akan berlaku satu penderaan; poligami kerana ingin mengahwini perempuan yang lebih muda atau hawa nafsu adalah melanggar ketentuan Allah.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Satu lagi saya perhatikan, masyarakat kita punya sikap “perkahwinan adalah penyelesaian segala masalah”. Perempuan belum berkahwin pula rela menjadi isteri nombor dua tanpa memikirkan akibatnya, semata-mata kerana ingin ada suami tempat bergantung? Mereka juga terlalu naif tentang kehidupan berumah tangga sambil mengharapkan suami akan berlaku adil. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Hanya kerana kebenaran isteri pertama, bukan tiket untuk bahagia pada masa hadapan. Bagi saya, orang belum berkahwin mempunyai satu masalah tapi orang berkahwin mempunyai banyak lagi set masalah. Sebab itu kita banyak mendengar kisah yang tidak elok bagi yang berpoligami – suami tidak adil, buat hal itu dan ini.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Orang lelaki, sebelum berkahwin janjinya setinggi gunung, tetapi bila sudah dapat apa yang dihajati, segala janji dilupakan. Mereka hanya mahukan apa yang mudah untuk mereka. Segala ketidakadilan mereka pun jarang mendapat pembalasan dari Allah di dunia, semuanya akan dibalas di akhirat. Jadi suami tidak perlu takut jika tidak berlaku adil? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Pada saya pandangan mereka yang mendakwa isteri pertama kedekut kerana tak izin suami berpoligami adalah pandangan cetek dan berkepentingan. Saya percaya, apa yang isteri takutkan bukan pasal berkongsi suami, tetapi memikirkan nasib dan masa depan anak-anak yang terpaksa berkongsi kasih.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Semasa di Malaysia dulu saya tanya kepada rakan sepejabat bilakah dia nak kahwin dengan kekasihnya yang sudah empat tahun bercinta. Katanya, dia ingin “test the water” dan dia ada kekasih kerana ego dicabar oleh rakan-rakan. Katanya, nak kahwin tak mampu dan kedua dia tak sanggup berpisah dengan anak-anaknya. Si wanita itu tahu. Tetapi dia teruskan hubungan kerana cinta. Siapa yang bodoh dan rugi dalam hal ini?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Ada yang salahkan isteri pertama biarkan suami berzina. Kenapa tidak salahkan suami yang berzina? Tak izin suami kahwin tak bermaksud suami ada lesen buat dosa? Mana tanggungjawab suami terhadap agama dan keluarga? Berzina tetap jadi dosa orang berzina. Isteri tak pikul dosa suami. Suami tidak seharusnya ada kekasih. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Pemahaman yang cetek mengenai ketaatan isteri terhadap suami dalam Islam juga penyebab kenapa poligami kita banyak masalah. Tidak ada ayat al-Quran atau hadis mengatakan isteri yang benarkan suami berkahwin lagi akan dapat payung emas di syurga. Ini peribahasa yang dicipta oleh masyarakat Melayu untuk lembutkan hati isteri. Sama seperti tidak ada dalam al-Quran dan hadis yang mengatakan syurga terletak di bawah tapak kaki suami. Syurga hanya milik Allah dan amal ibadah yang di lakukan untuk mendapat keredaan Allah. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Saya tidak kata isteri perlu derhaka kepada suami. Tetapi ketaataan yang membabi buta dan tidak mengikut pemahaman Islam sebenarnya penyebab kenapa ramai wanita atau isteri berasa ditindas dan suami melayan isteri secara sambil lewa.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Ketaatan isteri terhadap suami adalah penting, tetapi terlalu banyak silap tafsiran mengenai kuasa lelaki atau suami terhadap isteri dalam Islam kerana kebanyakannya dipengaruhi oleh budaya setempat, tidak tersebut dan diperkatakan dalam al-Quran. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Sebagai isteri dan orang Islam, kita perlu banyak membaca supaya tidak dianiayai kerana di dalam Islam semuanya lengkap. Sebab itu Rasullulah pernah mengatakan, “Tuntutlah ilmu sehingga sampai ke negara China.” Bukan secara literal kita perlu ke China tetapi bermaksud kita perlu dalami ilmu sedalam mungkin. Buat rujukan jika kita tidak berpuas hati atau tidak pasti dengan sesuatu perkara. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Saya bukan antipoligami, saya cuma anti- pemahaman atau hujah salah dan dipesongkan oleh mereka yang menggunakan ilmu pengetahuan yang cetek.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">Ulama kita juga terlalu ambil mudah isu poligami. Kenapa tidak galakkan suami kukuhkan iman, kuatkan mental supaya menjadi suami yang baik?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">‘‘Saya simpati dengan gadis yang belum kahwin, nasihat saya gunakan masa buatlah kerja kebajikan atau pelihara anak angkat, berkahwin bukan penyelesaian masalah anda,’’ demikian cerita Suhana panjang lebar mengikut kajiannya tentang poligami. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">Maka kita semua pun perlu buat kajian, jangan main sembrono. Malangnya orang kita malas membaca kecuali mereka hanya suka benda-benda negatif yang menghancurkan tetapi benda yang betul mereka tidak suka nak dengar.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">- MAIMUNAH<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">www.dcckmona.com<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in;text-indent:0in;line-height:normal"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"">dcckmonaum@hotmail.com<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-20963638703965656432010-06-23T05:50:00.000-07:002010-06-23T05:52:16.098-07:00frozen the time,please.<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Once upon a time, I wanted to know what love was.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Love is there if you want it to be. You just have to see that it’s wrapped in beauty,</div><div style="text-align: center;">and hidden away between the seconds of your life. If you don’t stop for a minute, you might miss it. -Ben Willis, Cashback.</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-54535264904005166242010-06-13T03:08:00.000-07:002010-06-13T03:22:57.809-07:00lets mumbling~~its raining outside and im listening to Auburn, The Perfect Two. awwww. ntah tiba tiba rasa nak ber blog. there so many changes n puzzles recently. bachelor degree.check. master.*rolling eyes*. workin. *rolling eyes*.<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i still follow the flow rite now. susah maze kali ini. i dont know what should i do and waiting is killing me. and and and i miss my friends! so much! especially you. yes you B!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i miss the way we spent time together sambil makan laksa sarawak dekat amnah and we talk talk and talk bout football, (i'm just listening whenever she start talking bout football) boys, girls that annoys us, makeup, weigh problem..ahh i miss u damn much. how dare u left me alone here. i guess that is routine. u come and go. everybody does. but the friendship, stay forever :-)</div><div>doa kan i bjaya n i doakan u bjaya jugak.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>owh ya, i miss missgolong also. polah LI jauh2.menyakitkan ati jak.but, it for her own good.i'll wait 3 july.promise.</div><div><br /></div><div>life change so fast. and now i felt it.its true. im not lying. orang pernah kata everyone goes with their own path. yup.that how i felt. everyone become selfish and i guess that kind of sellfish is a good way coz they grab the chances in front of their face.</div><div><br /></div><div>so am i. and, waiting is killing me. for real.haih.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-54015901287130988542010-05-31T08:37:00.000-07:002010-05-31T08:45:50.028-07:00is it a sin to be greedy?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; line-height: 13px; "><i><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">while im browsing the internet and other peoples blog, i found this hadith that i think its for married women. but it is not a fault for unmarried women to apply it </span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 13px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 13px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 13px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF00;">"Sebaik-baik wanita adalah yang apabila diberi sesuatu dia bersyukur dan bila tidak diberi apa-apa dia bersabar, yang menyenangkan hatimu bila kamu melihatnya dan mentaatimu bila kamu menyuruhnya..." (maksud Hadith)</span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">this past few weeks i always want more in everything. i dont know where my patience gone. i want more and more. i want to spend money more. i want attention more. i want love more. i want everyone give me what i want. it seems like i am a different people this past few weeks. especially in my result. i want more! am i so greedy. </span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">i know it is human nature that always wanting more.and this hadith juz remind me who i am back. tahnx you.</span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="display: inline !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;">p/s: i had a good time with my friend today. she also help me to see the future plan clearly now. thanx missgolong!</span></span></span></span></div></div></i></span>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-58699466491462561462010-05-28T23:54:00.000-07:002010-05-28T23:58:33.793-07:00P.E.L.I.T.A<embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/DyP4lZIITMU&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed><br /><a href="http://malayapark.com/wp/a-p-i-pelita-lagu-tema-hooperz/">A.P.I- Pelita (Lagu Tema Hooperz)</a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(34, 34, 34); line-height: 18px; font-family:georgia, 'palatino linotype', palatino, 'times new roman', times, serif;font-size:13px;"><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">Tak pernah sesaat daku meragui<br />apa yang telah daku temui<br />slama ini,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><br />Tak pernah sesaat daku menyesali,<br />apa yang telah aku nikmati,<br />apa ku alami,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">slagi hayat di kandung badan,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">takkan ku menyerah kalah,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">walau mimpi ku musnah,<br />harapan ku hancur,<br />sayapku patah,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">kan ku pancarkan cahaya,<br />seperti pelita ke srata dunia,<br />yang gelap gelita</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">sehingga hembusan nafas<br />yang terakhir.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><br />tak pernah sesaat ku mencurigai,<br />apa yg telah aku kecapi,<br />stakat ini,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><br />tiba saatnya kan ku tangisi,<br />pada yang pergi, takkan kembali<br />Kembali lagi,</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">Slagi jasadku belum terkubur!<br />Slagi tubuhku, belum ditimpa uzur!<br />pantang datuk nenek moyangku,<br />Berundur!</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; ">Akan Ku Pancar Cahaya Seperti Pelita,<br />Ke Srata Dunia,<br />Seperti Cahaya…….</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 15px; padding-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">p/s: i need my self to be positive. positive shie!</span></p></span>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-60916722307620893752010-05-13T19:06:00.000-07:002010-05-13T19:23:01.977-07:00Rumah si Tukang Kayu<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Saya ada satu cerita yang mahu dikongsi bersama.. tajuk nya ialah <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Rumah Tukang Kayu</span>.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Seorang tukang kayu yang bekeja di sebuah syarikat pembinaan perumahan berhasrat mahu bersara lebih awal daripada pekerjaan nya. Dia sudah letih bekerja dan mahu berehat dan menikmati usia tuanya bersama isteri dan anaknya.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Manakala, pemilik syarikat pula berasa sedih kerana kehilangan salah seorang pekerja terbaiknya. Dia meminta tukang kayu itu membuatkan sebuah rumah untuk dirinya, sebagai karya terakhir ysng boleh di berikan kepada syarikat.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Tukang kayu bersetuju dengan permintaan bos nya namun hati kecilnya menolak dan hanya setuju kerana terpaksa. Fikirnya, bos nya tidak mahu rugi dan mahu menggunakan khidmatnya hingga saat akhir. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Hatinya tidak menumpu sepenuh perhatian pada tugasnya itu. Dengan bahan sekadarnya dan hati yang tidak bersungguh sungguh, akhirnya rumah tersebut siap juga dengan prestasi yang tidak maksima.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Ketika pemilik syarikat datang melihat rumah yang baru terbina itu, tukang kayu pun menyerahkan kunci rumah itu kepadanya. Pemilik syarikat itu mengucapkan terima kasih atas kerja terakhirnya itu lalu menyerahkan kembali kunci itu pada tukang kayu. “ Ambillah, gunakanlah rumah ini untuk hari tua mun dan anggaplah rumah ini sebagai ungkapan terima kasih syarikat atas dedikasi dan kesetiaan kamu terhadap syarikat ini.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Betapa terkejutnya si tukang kayu. Dia berasa malu dan menyesal ketika menerima kunci rumah yang dibuatnya itu. Jika dia tahu rumah itu adalah untuknya, pasti dia akan membinanya dengan sungguh sungguh.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Itulah kehidupan kita yang penuh dengan misteri. Masa yang merupakan asset terbesar kita kadang kadang menjadi sia sia sekiranya di akhiri dengan penyesalan. Sebenarnya, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">sikap terhadap kehidupanlah</span></span> yang membuat hidup terasa bosan, pahit dan sebagainya sedangkan kehidupan itu berjalan bersesuaian dengan ritma alam yang telah ditentukan. Sikap ini pula yang membuat sesorang itu menjalani kehidupan dengan sepenuh hati atau separuh sahaja. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Apa yang difikirkan biasanya akan mempengaruhi bagaimana sikap kita terhadap apa yang kita fikirkan itu. Seterusnya akan mempengaruhi pekerjaan dan usaha kita. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Selalunya, ramai orang merasai sukar mengisi kehidupannya kerana terikat dengan peristiwa yang lepas. Padahal, kenangan masa lampau yang sedemikian indah, jika tidak dikawal kan menyebabkan keselesaan hati yang berlebihan dan membuatkan seseorang itu sukar berubah.berada dalam <i>safety zone</i> nya. Begitu juga dengan<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>trauma masa silam yang nyata boleh membuat sesorang enggan memulakan kehidupan yang baru dalam kehidupannya.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FFFF;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">‘Masa lalu adalah persoalan yang sudah mati dan kita tidak mungkin meraih momentum untuk menuju hari esok kalau kita menyeret masa lalu di belakang kita (Jack Hayford)</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Sesungguhnya kita tidak tahu apa akibatnya daripada tindakan kita yang kita lakukan ketika ini, kita hanya dapat meneka dan mengagak. Tetapi yang pasti adalah hari ini merupakan sebahagian waktu yang kita hadapi selangkah demi selangkah dan di situlah harta dan makna kehidupan yang kita lakukan.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Charles John pernah mengatakan perbezaan antara siapa anda hari ini dengan anda lima tahun yang akan datang boleh dilihat dari segi <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">buku buku yang anda baca</span> dan <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">dengan siapa anda bersama</span> dan d<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">engan siapa anda mengahbiskan masa bersama.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Itulah sebabnya apa pun yang dilakukan saat ini sama ada tugas atau tanggungjawab yang diberikan, kita perlu laksanakan dengan sebaik baik nya kerana <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;">apa yang disemai, itulah dituai.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;">p/s: my first interview is this monday.all the best shie!</span></p>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-81127702020179884592010-05-09T09:37:00.000-07:002010-05-09T09:48:07.533-07:00do u know who is Mia Sara?yes.i admitted. i am one of the fan of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF9900;">Adamaya</span> series. im lovin it!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>of course i watched it becoz of im one of the fan of<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> Lisa Surihani</span></span> which is beautiful and brilliant girl and also the handsome guy <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Sein</span></span>...and and and the super duper cutest lil girl.. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Mia Sara</span></span>..</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>dont tell me you do not know her?</div><div><br /><br /><object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/gCZ3Vtg4yN0&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/gCZ3Vtg4yN0&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="640" height="385"></embed></object><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><br /><object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/qQj4uYYdm08&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/qQj4uYYdm08&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="640" height="385"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /></div><div><br /><br /><object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Wh6fnQk1tZg&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Wh6fnQk1tZg&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xd0d0d0&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="640" height="385"></embed></object><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>cute isn'it???</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div> ok2 if u want to know details bout her like her full name is <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#00CCCC;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">Mia Sara Nasuha bt Mohd Ridhuan</span></span>, was born on <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#00CCCC;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">30 sept 2005</span></span>...etc... you can check <a href="http://ienaeliena.blogspot.com/2010/04/adik-amani-adamaya-tv3-mia-sara-nasuha.html">here</a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i wish my i have a daughter cute like her one day...meoww</div><div><br /></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-769620518974639502010-05-06T03:34:00.000-07:002010-05-06T03:37:16.466-07:00separate ways..everyone seems start to go their own way..<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>everyone start to separate with each other..</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>everyone have their own path..faith..</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i am gonna miss everything.. everyone..</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-62370188957005345662010-04-26T04:34:00.000-07:002010-04-26T04:35:30.998-07:00<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">"never how you've wanted </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">and thats life..."</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></span></span></div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-62221130012826120612010-04-15T22:27:00.000-07:002010-04-15T22:32:56.790-07:00help me!!!!! s.o.s!!fine! got another ticket cause i park the car outside the line. but it just a tiny line.and sure, the next car is still can park. <div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>fine! got fight before final. just nice bf.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>fine!recession again! severe recession after paying the ticket.damn! who gonna pay the ticket?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>fine! i hit the beam. once in my lifetime. bad karma today.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>fine! tomorrows plan at the beach? stillnot sure!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>fine! am still have no mood for study! biz law is killing me! </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>i am in tense!!!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>anybody......can u make me calm! i need to breathe!</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-77588684120238132542010-03-17T10:51:00.000-07:002010-03-17T10:57:39.625-07:00drama king<div style="text-align: left;">ku busy.ku busy. ku busy. macam ku sorang jak busy lam dunio tok.haih.</div><div><br /></div><div>hidup student tok nang busy.aku start terlampau busy bila start midterm business law. pas ya alu gago ngan presentation law. time ya juak la nak prepare molah presentation untuk industrial relation.dah lah lecturer nya banyak songeh. bolm abis. masok gik individu asg ngan group asg labor economics. kak ya presentation. mid term gik.syobihhhh. nindak pta ku blom siap. bapak nak alah2 ngerepak.</div><div><br /></div><div>gia lah student.sekali maok busy, makan tengah malam jak jak.nindak kin banyak lemak. </div><div><br /></div><div>ku malas naip sebenarnya.saja jak,update bha.</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ifDOrcJubu8&hl=en_US&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ifDOrcJubu8&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">ku suka lagu ya nek tok. i kno terlambat ckit, p skati ku mpun.ahahahahahahaha</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">DrAmA kInG~~~~~</div>yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-81576177930009057692010-02-27T20:55:00.000-08:002010-02-27T20:57:40.367-08:00saya busy.blog dah bersawang.berhabuk.lamak x update eyh.<br />kamek busy. busy hangout.busy assignments.busy pta due date 22 mac tok.busy presentation.<br /><br />BANYAK EH! Tensi!!!<br /><br />tiba tiba jak mek emo.tiba tiba jak sedih xtentu pasal.tiba tiba hati jadi sayu.<br />pa hal kah?<br /><br />XTAUK!<br /><br />maybe banyak gilak keja kot.jadi stress, emosi pun stress so nya kurang stabil.kali lah.xtauk.mood pun pandei berayan bah..yg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-850646160939493126.post-13702706060440809482010-01-16T05:18:00.000-08:002010-01-16T05:22:26.641-08:00entri boringminggu tok nang aku boring sikit. dah aku bercerita ngan kawan aku yang suka ngan arsenal ya, paham lah nya kot. jadi weekend tok tek, oleh kerana adik ku xda kat rumah k neman, so plan keluar with my mom.<br /><br /><br />berbeli dak baju dak handbag lah mek orang tek.<br /><br /><br />tapi still mood aku belum stabil.still boring tok eyh. xtauk knak.<br /><br /><br />rasa nak manas jak eyh. semua benda di polah rasa boring.<br /><br /><br /><br />chemm ni tukkkyg suka oren dan putehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17006882181317397502noreply@blogger.com0